From seclusion to isolation
Having a noticeably unhealthy yearning for seclusion, this shy young man withdrew from all the conventional contacts with society that were expected from a man in his position.
His own mother even told a friend that her brother thought 'it a disgrace to his family and that he is lost to the world… and never would be persuaded to mix in society and marry suitably… He has no vices, and many good qualities, but will not be a man of the world’.
Mistress of the house
Sir Henry made things even more scandalous by acquiring a mistress - one Nanette Hawkins, a lady’s maid at Calke. He lived in a small house in the Parkland with Nanette before committing the ultimate impropriety of the time - marrying her in 1792.
A rare glimpse of Sir Henry
Despite his shy nature, patriotism induced him to raise a troop of Yeomanry from his estates during Napoleonic Wars. This did temporarily lift him out of isolation but once the emergency was over, he withdrew once again from the world.
His solitude deepened to the extent that he even delivered orders to his servants by letter.
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